Well, there was recently a honest to goodness BADASS chick pilot... you might have heard of her... She flew a plane that had the engine explode, taking out a window and depressurizing the cabin and had a passenger halfway sucked out... Oh yeah, and she was an F/A-18 pilot in the Navy.
Tammie Jo Shults
You can read about her here. https://www.cnn.com/2018/04/18/us/southwest-pilot-landing/index.html