The woman is going to be offended no matter what eventuates.
Yep.
Basically she is offended that God made men the way he did.
I look at it this way: God made humans in two types. One type wants to “violate” the barrier of the body of the other type. That is, to insert himself inside that other body. His desire to do so is necessary for the species to survive so this desire is extremely constant and, actually, is usually consciously suppressed.
The other type wants the other type to “violate” their body. However, the event can happen even if they don’t desire it (or even want it).
Members of the latter group are served well when they understand the design and functional parameters within which the brain of the former group functions. The two groups interpret actions and events differently. If you accept a free drink from a man, he reasonably sees it as you being interested in allowing him to “violate” the barrier of your body. The barrier is down. i.e. if you don’t want to lead a man on, DO NOT accept free drinks from men you don’t know. Most civilized men will be gracious about it and even deny that that is their motive, but others won’t. And this article is about the others.