Here we go again: more of the ‘if you not black,’ you cannot talk about black stuff. Reminds me of those who chime about the ‘N’-word: if you are white and use the ‘N’ - word, you are damned to hell, but hey, if you are black and use the ‘N’ - word to identify another black person, its all good.......
She handled him just fine. He was bullying with his own racism.