It’s fine that she did. She comes out of this looking gracious and he comes out of it looking like a total ass.
T-Tomator...
It is Lent, she has adopted kids, she is a devout Catholic, regardless what other may think of her, ( she has her days where we disagree w/ her politically, and her her attitude or approach etc ) It is my guess she is trying to model for her kids and turn the other cheek.
Kudo's to her, she is handling it better than I could have, she put her kids and her and their faith 1st, via walking the walk.