I would suggest you haven't paid super close attention in that case.
"You're reacting to the hypothetical you have posited, for some reason, rather than to the facts at hand."
I was addressing the subject in general, rather than this specific instance directly -- for the "some reason" that I've personally witnessed numerous friends and relatives suffering the experience I described. I don't agree with the MGTOW movement, but I understand where the perspective comes from.
Normally, my friends act normally.