Posted on 12/16/2017 5:28:33 AM PST by x1stcav
Ladies, have you ever had a person that you care about but he has this annoying habit that grinds your nerves?
Since you're an open and honest human being, you want to talk to him about it, but the one time you alluded to it before, he got all huffy about it. Now, you don't want to bring it up because you're thinking it'll turn into this whole, big thing. So, since he’s a great person, you just ignore it even though you really wish he'd stop doing it. Well, it just may be possible that you're doing something very similar to some of the men in your life. Too harsh? Okay, maybe not YOU, but your loud friend, you know -- the one that doesn't have a lot of tact? She may be doing some of these things and by reading this article, you may be able to help her with things like...
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The cause of female behavior is - wait for it - males. Over millions of years, men have selected women based on their ability to have & raise children to maturity. Whatever primary & peripheral traits that may have evolved along with that essential package are merely supplemental skills/traits the helps ensure the primary motive. The contra-case is obviously true as well: we men are the product of millions of years of evolutionary selection by women. Whatever downside negatives we may bring to the table are also side-effects of delivering the key objectives.
Once you understand these basic causal factors, then you can become much more patient and sanguine about "the way things are". Annoyed because the lady in front hasn't noticed the light turned green because she's so engrossed in checking her FB page? Like porn, or instinctively swinging your head around to catch a chick with nice "lungs", women are programmed to be addicted to social environments, real or virtual. Without that vital trait, the ability to nurture and raise - slight nod to "It Takes a Village" - multiple child over many years without the support of a networked environment would be severely compromised.
Men should love women in all their glory; there aren't any true faults or annoying behavior. After all, your ancestors many multiple centuries removed selected theirs for a reason. The fact that you/I/we are actually here, sentient people typing away, are proof that they selected correctly.
Precisely
“My lovely wife doesn’t do anything that annoys me.
Of course, she doesn’t like my little white lies.”
EXCELLENT!
No one is complaining about the sex or going out and hanging out together. All of these problems are from the roommate aspect. Too much expectation on the other as a house partner, not a lover. I’ve been without a roommate partner for 4 years and I don’t miss any of those dumb expectations on either side. Why would you ever ruin a good thing and move in with them (if you already had your kids)?
Re the bathroom, it is a kindness to replace the seat. Men spray. Duh. So they should be the ones to touch the seat. I trained my boys since they were tiny and we girls don’t fall in the toilets nor have to handle the seat. I think it’s fair. It shouldn’t be a problem.
It is tedious to sit with men who complain of their women, and to sit with women who complain of men.
We are different from each other; hence the endless swirl of mystery and magnetism. Be humble and make of yourself the ideal mate. And be thankful that you are not stuck in the boredom of homosexuality.
This is what my husband does: something needs to be fixed. I tell him. He’s says okay, I’ll get to it. Remind me. Time goes by, I remind him, he gets irritated. So much time goes by that I ask if hes going to do it. He gets mad and says I should remind him. A little time goes by, I remind him, he gets irritated and tells me to quit nagging. I go out and buy the parts. He says Thanks, I’ll get to it. Time goes by, he doesn’t get to it. I hire someone to do it, he gets mad because I hired someone to do it. From now on, I will probably just ask him if I should hire someone to fix something. He’ll get mad, but he’ll probably do it.
Never had the toilet-seat problem with her over our 31 years together, not once. It doesn’t even occur to me such problem could ever happen. So color me skeptic for the rest which is either conflated out of reasonable proportions or only pertinent to the most finicky fraction of the population.
I’ve always said they’re a poorly-engineered design rushed into production without adequate field testing.
They were made with spare parts too, built from the rib up.
I’d teach her.
I’d weld the lid down.
(And then go outside and pee in the bushes, just to “pi$$” her off)
Yup.
That water is cold...
and DEEP
Man (Friday night): Hey, let's go back to that place we liked on Monday.
Woman (pouting): Can't we just stay home for one night?
Sheesh.
I know some bathrooms that really need it.
Course, opening the window or closing the door and turning on the ceiling fan helps too.
I’ve learned long ago that most of these are best answered with one of the following:
1. Yes, dear. That’s too bad.
2. Yes, dear. That’s nice.
3. Yes,dear. I see.
When it was brought to my my attention that my soon to be ex-wife would denigrate me, bad mouth me, my actions, my intelligence, and my looks to my friends wives when they were alone, I took notice that I had suddenly become unable to do laundry, cook, clean, dice, breathe or even sleep correctly after 45 years of life, u said that’s it, I am done.
I take some small comfort knowing I'm not alone.
It’s why God gave us beer.
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