Am I weird? This just isn't a problem for me.
I think, on the face of it, he’s weird and a sleezy kind of loser.
You don’t ask your employees such a thing unless you are close enough to meet in private, spouses included, to enter a very personal and serious discussion.
Maybe that is what happened, but it doesn’t sound like it.
“This just isn’t a problem for me.”
Me either. Assuming he was seriously interested in finding a surrogate for artificial insemination, and not using it as a pick-up line (and no one is saying different), then this is just not an issue.
There must be something more to the story, or why else would he agree to resign?