For purely shallow reasons, I didn’t want to go on the pill when I got married. I didn’t want to gain weight. Predictably, we had our first baby almost ten months to the day of our wedding.
It was later that that I learned about all the negatives of hormonal birth control and I am so grateful that I never took it. And even more thankful that we have the three unplanned blessings who would never be here if we were “careful”.
Part of being human is to procreate - turn that off and we are no longer quite human.
Part of it is ‘generation selfie’ so self absorbed that they don’t want/like children. I have no time for people that dislike children - they have no heart - not quite human.