https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-soi/15databk.pdf
http://www2.census.gov/programs-surveys/popest/tables/2010-2016/state/totals/nst-est2016-01.xlsx
https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-soi/12databk.pdf
https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-soi/11databk.pdf
http://www.census.gov/popest/data/state/totals/2012/tables/NST-EST2012-01.xls
The data you quote uses median household income, gross receipts including business, and total population. The mean household income is likely even higher, but the per capita income is significantly lower, as is the inter-state disparity of the same. Importantly, there is no reliable way to estimate the impact of unreported income of illegal aliens... also do not know if the census estimates household income of illegals, or only uses reported incomes for its median value (admittedly have not searched for details on that). The data in those sources neither support nor refute your claims.