but you go to jail for saying it in California and New York
I live in CA and I absolutely delight in saying “Merry Christmas” emphatically to anybody that says “Happy Holidays” to me. Most seem to not care; some, especially store clerks, give a sly glimmer of recognition and enjoyment. I have yet to be scowled at or excoriated for saying it. I think people are relieved and happy that somebody is pushing back no matter how small.