Let’s agree to disagree. I’m in a medical school setting of a major university working with MD psychiatrists and neuriscientists...even married to a psychiatrist.
My statements are far from politically correct and thus I must be careful not to rock the proverbial boat by publishing them.
There are many factors influencing being gay. For example in over 50% of the 50-60 lesbians I tested the root cause was mother’s anger towards the child’s father while she was pregnant with the child. The first imprint on the tabula rasa and it carried through life.
Trauma with the same sex parent will predispose to being gay, but not opposite gender parent.
Codependency with opposite sex parent can predispose, if a masculine mother or feminine father.
I’ve found in several lesbians that the predisposition was merely due to behavior validation of being gay from birth.
In my research I separate intellectual attraction from emotional chemistry attraction from trauma attraction.
There are sometimes multiple attractions.
Sometimes it is merely peer presure and group identity validation when the child goes to college.
I’ve worked with several hundred gays on a one to one basis and thousands through group workshops. It is a complex subject as it is consciousness related and not genetic.
I try to read/review all new published research on this topic. Most of it is garbage.
The number one attraction in all relationships (both gay and straight) is that we are attracted toward someone who’s personality is similar to someone with whom we have unresolved conflict. This is what causes chemistry attraction in relationships.
“There are many factors influencing being gay.”
SSAD in men is caused by the trauma of a molestation or seduction in the pre-adult years. Simple as that.
But you just keep on with that other crap.
“I’m in a medical school setting of a major university working with MD psychiatrists and neuriscientists...even married to a psychiatrist.”
The horror; the horror.