Loved your rules!
My 2 SILs both live in the Philadelphia area and are both bent out of shape that we didn’t just pack the kids up in the car and take a “vacation” up to see them. In my Lincoln Navigator that gets 12 MPG on a good day. I wouldn’t even make it out of the state from Clearwater at that rate.
I know, if you don’t live here you don’t get it. My Georgia friends are out of there minds with worry they just don’t get it. I have had 12 ofters to come back, my dad is there I have a place to go if need be, some of them are mad at me...