Stop getting pregnant by men you can’t live with if you know you can’t afford to raise a family as a single mother with little or no skills and education. You have no one to blame but your own lack of self-control. Sexual maturity and responsible adulthood are two very different things. One is worthy of respect and admiration while the other is not. Guess which one is not...If you guessed the former then you are correct because sexual intercourse without regard to its consequences (not always completely negative but more so nowadays) does not automatically bring prestige and respect to idiots who might eventually expect responsible Americans to support them and their “families”.
Chris Rock did a concert some time ago in which he did a segment called "Black people vs Niggaz".In it he talked about the portion of the black population who were lazy,irresponsible and violent.At one point he talked about welfare and mentioned women on welfare who had seven kids and he starts yelling "stop fornicating" (although he used a different term).
Well, in a healthy, normal, functioning society you would be correct, but you may not have noticed you actually are living in insane clown world.
When I was growing up, "single mother" (but not "widow") was a synonym for "whore".
My, how things have changed.
When George W. Bush came to my little town in July 1999, campaigning for the 2000 NH Primary, one of his main talking points was how "single moms" are the real heroes (I think he meant "heroines") , and how, if we made him President, he was going to do so much more for them.