That psychologist is just confirming red pill ideology. Same with mgtow ideology.
In a nutshell it is called alpha f***s/beta bucks.
Nearly 25 yrs ago when I first got married my wife said I was gruff and complained about it. I said fine you want a limp wrist BF Pierce type okay. For a week I agreed with everything she said or requested, brown nosed, sucked up and apologized profusely at the wiff of anything I thought she was upset about.
By day three she could hardly stand to be around me. Finally after five days she come to me begging please I want my grouchy, contrary MAN back I can’t stand you this way. I asked did I make my point? Yes she said you are you I want that cranky old bear back. I said I’m me, I’m 27 yrs old and I am not changing, my Dad is this way, he’ll your Dad is as well . She said I know sorry I tried to change you. 25 yrs later we are still going strong. And she hates beta males with a passion.
The Red Pill. It seems terrible and harsh until you realize it is the absolute truth.