Some academic did a huge study just the other day —many years and many thousands of women interviewed.
You know what the most common reason is cited by US women initiating (and completing) divorce after age 40..?
Not, not “only *pretending* to listen to me”.
No, not “cheating on me”.
It’s NOT MAKING ENOUGH MONEY.
Those women are called whores.
Even though they only had one customer they were still expecting to get paid for it and thus they are whores.