My wife cared for her wheelchair bound dad for 25 years, and ALZ mom for 6 years. They both died on the farm here.
I will say that spouses may need a man cave to survive odd dramas. My dad went quick, at age 57, with congestive heart failure from diabetes. I kid my wife that I want to go quick..
We’re near Salem, and will surely add our voice to this..
You and your wife know better than most how much stress and sacrifice is involved in care giving. And you know the rewards as well I’m sure. It’s harder than any job and it’s more than a duty it’s family.
Good luck fighting this evil bill.