Her book has been gradually absorbed into the culture - you yourself are a product of that culture. I’m sure the rapists themselves parrot the power line! Surely you know that? It has only been debunked by cultural critics not by any government or military or law enforcement entity.
And it still doesn’t explain how men who rape children are on a power trip.
Because they are socially incompetent and choose weaker victims in order to experience power and control.
If rape was always/only about sex, victims would mostly be nubile females between 15 and 30.