They may be nice to outsiders but they are definitely not nice to family members.
I know that they can be very domineering with the male authority of the household. And strict disciplinarians. Maybe not “nice,” but severe.
Correct... not nice to friends of fanily members, either. My niece dated a JW kid & his parents would not allow her to step foot on their lawn, let alone in their house. She always had to wait outside. Strange people...Christians?? Not!