Yaelle FRiend, I get no end of LOLing at your references to gay candlestick sex.
I even mentioned it to my wife yesterday, in the context of We Will Not Be Seeing This Movie..
I spent some formative years living near San Francisco. I have seen gay candlestick sex up close.
It’s nowhere near as fun and glamorous as some folks portray it!
ROFL! Maybe I should stop mentioning gay candlestick sex since I have zero experience seeing it live, then! Heck. I don’t even know how gay candlestick sex differs from straight candlestick sex!! I’m so naive!! ;)