The key to disarming a narcissist is to shine light on them. The more Light the better. Praying for them is torture for them.
I’ve been studying this subject for several years as I could not detect the energy field of a narcissist when they are around me. Most people radiate energy and I feel it. Narcissists suck energy thus they are very hard to read.
The easiest way to recognize a narcissist is by their trail of victims. While they project a “Holier than Thou” persona, they are constantly stabbing people in the back. Often this is difficult to see as another attribute is that narcissists use surrogates to do their dirty work.
The hardest lesson in my life was to rise above the energy of narcissists. They will find what you are attached to and use it to manipulate you like a puppet. They see emotions as a weakness as they use other people’s emotions to manipulate them.
Remember what Jesus said.. “Forgive them, they know not what they do... “ We must truly Love our enemies. This is especially true of a narcissist, but it must be a tough Love.
THAT’S a good post!
. . . into the heart of darkness..
This sounds like that woman I had in my first marriage!
Jesus Christ: You can't impeach Him and He ain't gonna resign.