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Sexual abuse as a child causes other problems.

I’ve worked with quite a few lesbians and in at least 50% of the cases, the mother was very angry at the father when she was pregnant with the child that became a lesbian.

Sexual abuse often creates a reversal of the emotional subconscious reward punishment system to where a person becomes positively stimulated by a negative stimulus and negatively stimulated by a positive stimulus. If the environment does not provide the negative stimulus, the person self punishes by suppressing their immune system.

This is caused as children who are victims blame themselves and carry guilt subconsciously which in turn creates the desire to be punished in order to get rid of the guilt.

Earlier this week I was working with a woman in her late 20’s who was in an excellent job, but kept self sabotaging. When I merely asked her to close her eyes and say “I love myself” in her mind, she burst out crying and couldn’t say it. That was how I demonstrated to her that she had the reversal.

I can generally do in about 15 minutes what psychologists and therapists can’t do in years of therapy. I zero in on the perceptual programming event that created the behavioral problems in a few minutes as I feel the traumatic stored memory as a physical object, even if it happened just after conception. Once the source of the issue is located, it generally only takes a few more minutes to heal the trauma.