Trying to screw with God is a 100% guaranteed way to find your own self screwed.
If you think family being spoken ill of is bad, imagine what came upon Jesus. And He still willingly suffered and died for our sins. And He still came back to bring those blessings even to people who had hated Him, if they would but change their minds.
But if the charm offensive from heaven won’t work on you, then out will come the thunder and lightning.
Stuff it padre. This is war.