I have already established that neither I nor my wife's background included being born, bred, and educated among or as "elites," and nor were my kids. Is Ivanka Trump the one with whom you have concerns pertaining to the "elites?"
Your Gallup poll is interesting, though my kids were born in 1988, 1990, 1992, and 1994 and completed their time in day care significantly before the graph's inflection point.
Be careful not to conflate those who choose to place their kids in day care (the topic of discussion) with those who are "absent " parents. That would be little more than a careless extrapolation.
By the way America's public schools and institutions certainly have gone a great distance in trying to dispossess children of their core Christian morality, but I am happy to say that my wife and I had 4 graduates of public schools who regularly shined the light of truth and openly challenged a spirit of amorality in that very dark place.
FReegards!