I never said that the Marines should relax their acceptance requirements for any woman. I simply said that if this woman met those requirements, then she's entitled to the respect that a United States Marine deserves.
I doubt that very many United States Marines would display the disrespect language toward a fellow citizen that you have exhibited, in the total absence of any such language on my part.
So thanks for your service, but not for being a total hotheaded jerk.
Abusive language? He simply pointed out his qualifications to judge the situation and questioned yours. Granted, I understand why that might be painful to you, since getting blown up is never pleasant.
As a great military mind once said, “Lighten up, Francis!”