Congratulations for being open to loving and raising the children. I did a similar situation and blended children from two families. It was very difficult.
The attraction that we feel as love is often created by our soul searching for a surrogate to project an unresolved wound upon for an opportunity to resolve it. It’s the reason that we are often attracted toward someone whose personality is similar to one of our parents. I do a fair amount of work with women who get into physically violent relationships, one after another. They can’t help themselves as it is an underlying attraction.
One woman I worked with had been hospitalized due to being beaten by the same man. Each time he went to jail. And, each time she took him back again. Her comment to me was... “I can’t help myself. It’s as though I am addicted to him.”
I went into her soul field, found the childhood experience that created the perceptual programming event of the original wound, and we resolved it.(It was about 12 feet from her physical body) The next day she called me to say that her attraction toward her husband was totally gone. I explained that you don’t need a surrogate to resolve a wound that has already been healed. (Note: I also ended up working with him to heal his violent tendencies.. that is a long story in of itself)
My warning to you is that the daughters may have a strong underlying attraction toward boys whose personality is similar to their birth father with whom they have unresolved conflict. Please help them as they are going through the dating process as the stronger the unresolved conflict the stronger their attraction toward boys with the similar personality. This is what creates the chemistry attraction of love.
“My warning to you is that the daughters may have a strong underlying attraction toward boys whose personality is similar to their birth father with whom they have unresolved conflict.”
Both are married to good men with good jobs who are good fathers. The younger one dated a real loser for awhile. Not violent or drunk but lazy and unnapreciative. So your concerns may be justified. “H” certainly didn’t have to settle for second best. She’s a statuesque dark haired beauty. Every Halloween someone suggests she dress up as Wonder Woman. Wonderful person also. Recently, while taking care of her own two little girls she found time to prepare and freeze a months worth of meals for a pregnant friend so she wouldn’t have to cook for a month after delivery. Every once in awhile I tell my son in law (with just a hint of seriousness) that if he ever forgets he’s the luckiest man in the world I’ll kick his ass!