No, she learned the proper lesson. You need to home school her or put her in a private school.
My grandson just started as a freshman at a very exclusive private school in CA. The headmaster is a big Trump supporter and refuses to coddle the students. Each freshman gets his or her own horse who they are responsible for for the entire year. They have to do everything for this horse in addition to learning how to ride. The headmaster thought that having the kids wear helmets was sissie-ish but that was shot down by the parents. I have hope that my grandson will emerge from 4years at this school ready to tackle the world.