[donna]

my father was a career military intelligence man who spent most of that time parrying the dark intentions of Soviet Russia

Father didn't look after his boys and something happened.

[IVAXMAN]

Pantywaist gay boy, but mom and dad still love him, but bet they don’t approve of his lifestyle.

Boy being ashamed of his parents is disgusting, the parents are the ones who should be ashamed, and probably are, but they put up with him because of their unconditional love a parent has for their children. That boy is lost.