I ran into a situation once where a 12-year-old girl's mother saw nothing with a male "friend of the family" copulating with the girl because he was nice, and generous, and gave them gifts and money to pay their bills.
I'm wondering whether in this case ma and grandma are both living off of the rapist's income.
I’m betting the rapist dad is the sole breadwinner or at least a significant income earner they’re all dependent on.
I’m betting there is some heavy psychological abuse going on here and the family is blaming the victim for what happened.