While I appreciate the apology, was that letter actually written by someone representing an institution of higher learning? Does ECU have an English department?
I’m happy with that response, and a “don’t do it again if you want to remain in the band” seems like the appropriate level of discipline. The awkward wording and grammar are about what I’d expect from a music department, and it doesn’t bother me at all.
If only the NFL dealt with the issue in this manner...
What are the names of the 19?