I am willing to be persuaded, but most will consider it a female thing.
If Hillary were doing a woman thing, it was Alinsky inspired. Hillary tried to neutralize Trump with her wiggles and giggles that are totally unnatural to her. I don’t think there was a spontaneous Hillary moment in the whole debate.
Remember in the 2008 debate when Hillary was asked about her likeability issues? Her response was to giggle and faux-flirt with her comment, “That would hurt my feelings.” It is a disarming strategy that, you’re correct, men cannot use. In that instance 0bama won the point with, “You’re likeable enough, Hillary.”