I’ll add you to my prayers.
Having survived cancer twice, I can attest that it is a horrible thing, but not the worst of things. Between my bouts with cancer, my husband had a stroke. It has been way more devastating than both cancers combined. And it never ends. There is no remission. I wouldn’t wish either on anyone, but if I had to choose between the two, could I have another bowl of cancer, please?
I see it this way:
My daughter has twin daughters, 4 year-old twins (not identical). As far as the whole family is concerned, she has the right to see those 2 little girls grow up to have good/great careers, and marry and have their own children, which would be my daughter’s grandchildren.
My daughter is only 35 years old, and her daughters are her pride-and-joy. Yeah, cancer doesn’t understand age, and it doesn’t understand family, but, she’s still “my little girl” and my granddaughters are also “my pride-and-joy”.
Cancer’s other name is “hell”!