I’ve lived through that, and I find your counsel to be greatly lacking.
That may be....and yet it has worked for myself and at least a dozen others that I know
That you don’t want to act like an adult and recognize that you cannot force people to like you or love you is not my problem.
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to allow others to be who they will be
And I do note that “you lived through it” which means you didn’t die because your child wouldn’t behave the way you wanted them to