There was a time, not so long ago, when I personally took a "live and let live" policy towards activists, gay activists in particular. They called for "tolerance" and I was tolerant. Mostly because I didn't care about their causes.
Now, as you point out, they're calling for forced acceptance, even forced celebration of their causes. "Do this, or I will ruin you. Because I can." is approximately their position. So, now I'm being forced to pay attention, to care.
I may be wrong, but I think that activists - gay activists, specifically - won't like it when conservatives start to pay attention, to care about their causes. I suspect that they'll want to dial the clock back 20 years to the laissez-faire attitude that I, and many others, held.
Because it won't end well, for anyone.
Well, one thing is certain, they have convinced you to use their language. There is nothing gay about any of these perverts. They are sodomites, little changed from thousands of years ago when they were kicked to the closet.