And how did you know that is what I was thinking only trying to put it a politer way???? ROFL.....
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Khula Edit
Main article: Khula
Khula is the right of a woman in Islam to seek a divorce or separation from her husband. A Muslim woman may petition a qadi, or in non-Islamic areas an Islamic community panel, to grant her divorce if the husband refuses. The waiting period (iddah) of a woman who seeks a divorce is one menstrual cycle or one month if she is post-menopauseal, i.e. ceased menstruating. This is to ensure she is not pregnant.[27] If the woman is pregnant, then the waiting period is until she gives birth.
Valid reasons for granting khula vary by region, but may include cruelty (darar), impotence, or the husband not providing adequate food and shelter.