Who knows ? If the seizures are causing her to looooose control, depends may not be the answer.
Those of us who have dealt with children in our classroom know the signs and tell-tell orders associated with accidents brought on by illness.
I agree with the doctor who said she was NOT getting proper medical care. Or maybe she has doctor shopped to get a doctor who will treat and prescribe for her the way she demands
She may just fear the fact that getting proper medical care would introduce too many uncontrollable healthcare/other workers into the equation. Even with HIPPA guidlines.