You summed up my feelings exactly.
I could not have been part of her party tho. I’m too much like John Boehner at certain times; Verklempt!
For me I guess it would depend on the person if I attended or not.
I suppose I would be there to have a little time with them to make sure they were not being pressured to do it, that it was on the up and up, that they were really at the end of their rope, no second guessing...
I am facing a possible life without living, no cure, just know that at some point the treatments will fail. Wife and I have already considered this. No reason to be kept alive and suffer and that means the both of us.