Boys today are weak. Can’t even call them men and getting a grip is just part of their shortage.
At 13 years old, my son was 6' tall and weighed 250 lbs. At 15, he hauled a fully stocked gun safe up a flight of stairs at our new house by slinging it over hit shoulder and walking it up. He and my husband moved a marble-top dresser weighing several hundred pounds, with the drawers in and the mirror on.
He's 6'2" now, slimmed down to 225, and is build just like my husband: wide shoulders, strong square jaw, broad powerful hands, and doesn't take nonsense off of anyone.
My challenge is finding a boy like him for my daughter. She knows how a man is supposed to look, speak, and act because she's had her father as the example.