Correct. I agree on that point.
I'm not trying to absolve him for his behavior, I'm just pointing out that this is not solely his fault, and that's how these things usually get played.
The young lady woman had equal responsibility for her own actions, she is not a victim, and apparently the judge agreed.
I agreed with that in origunal post
Have done so in subsequent posts
Let’s be real honest ....young men are treated like gods if they nail everything in sight. Young women are treated like whores is they sleep with the young gods