Let’s not forget the medical profession asking if you own a fire arm, or if you are Military or Ret. Military and complain of PSTD.
Why do you think I never mention the ‘grief’ factor that plagues during holidays, BD or anniversary dates. I will never get over the senseless murder of my child, while the calendar said he was 16, he was mentally and physically a 12 yr old when he was ambushed and beaten to death with a section of fence post so some sociopath could get his jollies to see what it felt like to kill, and went bragging about what he’d done and dragged his friends to the murder site to just about a block from our home. They stood on the side lines watching the LEO investigate. Our 10 yr old mentally challenged neighbor’s son came and told us Jeremy had fallen off the Ice Plant roof and was dead. He was to young and innocent to know it was a murder scene. Not the police.
So sorry to hear of the loss of your son to murder. Hope the killer got what he deserved.
My wife & I are vets & we know better than to go near the VA at all, let alone tell them about any issues.
I don’t have the words. All I can say is that there is little “justice” left in this dying country.