[Mrs. Don-o]

I didn't say everyone has an evil motive. I didn't have my first baby until I was 38. In all the preceding childless years, I did not have an evil motive.

If I had valued having children when I was 18, though, I could have gotten married and got started. I had a very good chance to do that, but it's not what I valued.

[trisham]

Not everyone finds the love of their life at 18. My father didn’t want me to date until I was out of college. A woman can want children, but not find a suitable husband so quickly.

There are some on this site who love to condemn. They sicken me.