I got way too much attention and I did the same thing. I wore a jogging bra and a tank top underneath my t-shirts and loose clothing. It did not work as well as I’d hoped. One in particular who harassed me constantly and groped me several times never got in trouble for it. One time I slapped him so hard afterwards it left one hell of a mark. I got sent to the principals office (by a female teacher) and nothing was done to him. I just went home rather than go because I was so sick of it. Some people are just jerks!
It’s kind of a community sin, to isolate sex from family.
The glue that has such power in cementing family together the right way, is such a shame provoking mess when allowed to slop around the wrong way. I’d liken it to squirting Super Glue all over a machine. It will gum up the works very badly.
Anyhow, behavior like this is a combination of ignorance, addictive habit, and disregard to charitable conduct.
(And selfishness, i.e. “jerks”)
It’s called internalizing. Some people do. It isn’t rational, but it’s what I did when I was a teenager. I don’t blame myself now for being psychologically immature then.