Relations between the sexes in this area is touchy at best (ask Adam and Eve with their initial loincloths of fig leaves).
If someone actually TALKED about her breasts, that would be more difficult than just wondering what people thought. But it sounds like they talked.
Anyhow, the attempts of modern culture to separate sexual symbolism from marriage have only left it a worse wreck. I don’t doubt there are misunderstandings. But without the family paradigm being the overarching paradigm, there is no context in which to forge an integrated understanding. (And thus is my quota of professor talk for the night.)
I find the categorization of men in general based on the behavior of individuals hypocritical when such generalizations about women are not sanctioned.
Furthermore, the generalization that there is something wrong with men because their attention is unwanted by particular women is not only pathologically subjective, it is conceited in that it denies the obvious about men's sexuality.
It's like "heads" thinking it has more right to come out than "tails" on a coin toss.