I’ll bet my eye teeth your family subscribes to the paternalistic family model, at least in practice if not in name.
We started that way, but changed after the first fifteen years to an equal partnership in our own business.
The thing that didn't change is she could do her part from home (home office that she ran), so she was always home when the kids got back from school. We both loved that part.
Working so close and being married is not for the feint of heart......:-)
The "sexual harassment" on both our parts was most excellent.