My wife of three years left me a few months ago. The pain only seems to increase as time goes on :( after She left, and during one of my “pleading sessions” she said she regarded the marriage as “an experiment” that didn’t work out for her. She seemed flabbergasted when I scolded her for using such a cold term. She said it in two occasions, thereafter. These women REALLY know how to hurt a guy :(
“The pain only seems to increase as time goes on :( “
It will get better——it always does.
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“My wife of three years left me a few months ago. The pain only seems to increase as time goes on :( after She left, and during one of my “pleading sessions” she said she regarded the marriage as “an experiment” that didn’t work out for her. She seemed flabbergasted when I scolded her for using such a cold term. She said it in two occasions, thereafter. These women REALLY know how to hurt a guy :(”
Because that’s what marriage is to most women, an experiment. They love the attention form the wedding and reception, but then when the work starts they dip out.
You may not believe this right now however I'll say it anyway: Be glad it's only been three years that you wasted with that woman. Some of us come out the other side of having kids, careers and working our asses off to support our families only to find out 20, 30 years later that our wife's really aren't that much different than yours.
Mourn the end of your marriage, take care of yourself and give yourself time. It gets better.
I know it seems like the end of the world, or at least the end of your life. It isn’t.
Life is going to suck for a while. More than you ever thought it could. You will have some dark days and sleepless nights. It will seem as if the sorrow will never end.
Then, to your surprise, it will get better. Gradually at first, then much quicker than you can imagine.
Then, life will be very good indeed. I promise.
If you ever want to talk it out, freepmail me. God bless.