Think that’s intrusive and none of their business? My kids’ pediatrician asks that. Apparently it’s part of their questioning now so it’s not as if I could just take them to another one. When I take them I troll with all sorts of weapon names (some made up) so they have no idea if any of it is true or not.
I tell them "I don't talk about that. I don't want to spoil the surprise."
Yes, the gov always targets kids first. Better to take kids to FP that flies under radar. I’d say the # of docs who want to ask this question are near 0.0001%. Chances are excellent that if they ask it they are being coerced. Correct answer is a lie—”no”— the only time you can’t lie to a doc legally is when you lie to get drugs.