“I think all of us have met men that seem more female than male and met women that seem more male than female. And, they don’t seem to me to be faking.”
I think there are folks that genuinely believe they are the opposite sex. But this doesn’t determine what sex they themselves are attracted to. In any case, yes the legitimate ones have a malady in my opinion, and shouldn’t be despised or shunned, but helped.
But this doesn’t mean that women should have to tolerate men using their sex-exclusive areas, no matter what.
You certainly have a point there. As the lieutenant governor said, a little girl shouldn't have to share the ladies room with at 30 year old male pervert in a dress (if that is what "he" is). But, as Megyn points out, it may not be better to force a little boy to share a men's room with that "guy." I think she has a point - there just aren't any good answers to this mess.
Nature ain't perfect. ;-)