Made that mistake once. Danced with her a couple of times. She called, we had lunch. That was about it. She was just a little too ... clammy ... for my tastes, although she was a nice enough girl.
But then the calls kept coming. I let her down easy. Then I let her down hard. Then I just plain told her to piss off. Next time I showed up at the bar, there she was, demanding to know if I was dating other women. I told her to mind her own business and walked out. She followed me and hung onto the door handle of my truck so I wouldn't leave. I left anyway.
She followed me down the street to another bar. When I chugged my beer and got up to leave that one, she screamed at me that she had every right to be there and that I didn't own the bar.
I said nothing, but walked out the door and went home. Thank heavens I had the good sense not to give her my home address or she would have been waiting for me there.
All that because of a couple of dances and a dutch lunch.
I used to have a rule that if a guy called me more than once within three days they were out! Guys can be just as crazy.
it could have turned into a deadly ending