Don't blow the cash, live under the thumb of others.
Just have to say ‘sue me’ and give half the trust to lawyers and hope you can get a judge to assign most of the fees to the jerk’s share of the estate.
“It can’t happen here
It can’t happen here
I’m telling you, my dear
That it can’t happen here
Because I been checkin’ it out, baby
I checked it out a couple a times.”””
Most Zappa lyrics would be appropriate.