Many many people are not strong willed and they don’t like confrontation!!! I would be screaming to get my way!! But most are not like that!!!
It’s part of their social makeup. They are taught to conform to the will of their elders. That’s why the voting by computer where they do not have to be public about who they support may work in Trumps favor.
Remember those who call and ask questions during a poll would be suspect of telling the elders their answers so they will say what they know they are suspected to say