Well I’m pretty sure you’re not a woman so I don’t have a high degree of confidence you are able to speak for them with any modicum of credibility. Read up on why women date the "bad boys," the alpha-males. If there's one thing women cannot stand, is prissy, metro-sexual, effeminate men. This is part of the reason why Jeb Bush crashed and burned.
I am telling you, Kelly and Trump are made for each other. Politically, of course. The two of them are like Brad and Angelina in "Mr. and Mrs. Smith."
UB, assuming you're a guy, maybe you needed to date more. Some women are attracted to the arrogant a-hole type, and some aren't. Making a generalization about the dating preference of all women is ridiculous.